"Happy Womans Day ! "

What do I write!!!!!!!! I am sitting here thinking about a topic to write on and I cant come up with even one!! or am I coming up with too many? And then I finally decide to write about the first thing that came up to my mind and here I go...

"Happy Womans Day ! "

to everybody out there...Oh I m so proud and happy to be a woman.....Its indeed true that shes gods most wonderful creation on earth..there wouldnt be life without her...Its amazing how a woman adorns the role of a mother, a sister, a daughter, a wife , a friend, a girlfriend and even just an aquaintance and all so naturally... the sacrifices she makes small or big just to make her loved ones happy.. So innocent, naive, beautiful in form,soft and tender, compassionate, loving, understanding and supportive and at the same time very bold, ambitious and raring to go new heights ... theres not a single profession in which women have not set foot into.....right from farming, arts and fashion to military, science and technology, engineering , business and administration, cinema and what not..

Coming to my experience at being a "woman" so to speak.... and being with other woman there are a lot of things only a woman would understand.. even things that I have or will say in this blog may make better understood by my own species!! that the other. We have all been daughters to begin with, then friends to both boys and girls and some of us maybe girlfriends and most of us definetely yet to be wifes and moms....

As a daughter, I believe most of us want to be a dads pet...love to be pampered , bought gifts for, praised about in a gathering, never said no to anything!! and beleive me all this is true if you are the first child in the family...(which I was)...I could'nt bare even the slightest criticism ( healthy ofcourse) from my dad... it almost brought tears to my eyes...to have my ego hurt..( God knows what ego I had as a lil kid!!)...I m sure most girls felt this way about their dads...we all want our dads to be proud of us dont we?? Love you dad..

As a sister, we were and are that caring, sacrificing elder ones feeling a sense of responsibility towards the younger ones or the dominant ones posing to be know all..or the adamant, demanding younger ones.The elder ones get all the attention, all new toys, clothes and the likes while the younger ones most often will have to use the used ones! I m sure they hate to do that but somehow surprisingly put up with it...On the other hand, they see a better, faster world, they have examples set good and bad by their elder sibling and they know how to manage their lives better.. they tend to get more independant and always have their elder siblings to look upto...Love you sis..

As a friend , we have or had that best girl friend ( a few of them rather )at some point of time or the other.. the one girl who always accompanied you to wherever...who goes around telling people that you are her best friend with a beaming smile...who you have all those lil secrets to share with about other gals and boys. ..sometimes things that couldnt be discussed with family were best understood among friends..and as you grow up this turns to a mature relationship not bound by gender and we start to have friends who are boys too...few of us I m sure have had these guys care for you, be very possessive and attached to you and its left to destiny to take the relationship where it suits....but I really cherish every moment I spent with all the girl and guy friends I have had so far and friendship is an amazing bond indeed..do not lose friends..Love you all my buddies!

As a wife ( of a stinky rich husband!! ) and a mother , ( both still in my dreams.. thats quite a while from now ) wouldnt we all want to be as sweet and loving as our own moms..managing both roles with utmost selflessness some of our moms being working women too. Making yummy dishes, cleaning our rooms, staying up with us during our exams, waking us up in the mornings literally every day!! being the best mediator between us and dad! ( Personally I wouldnt want to have a kid that I have been for myself.. for all the trouble that I caused for my poor mom.. sorry mom!)....You are a darling..Love you mom...

(Hats off to all those guys who came up to this point in my blog.. boy.. wasnt that long?? I did not realize I was going to write a never ending first blog!! The bad news is that I m actually not sure if this is all I want to say...the good news though is that I have for now decided to put a stop to the flow of emotions before it bursts and turns into the longest blog ever! )

So dear women, no matter what color or creed , rich or poor, young or old, realize that we are all beautiful, smart and intelligent, very able to manage our own lives and even others lives, those who mean the world to us ... your parents, siblings, friends, husbands and kids...we are here to make lives including your own , beautiful with just a smile, a touch , a hug, a kiss , a word......just anything....you are here to make a difference.....nothing should hold you back..no pressure, no obligation, no fear nor force, no nothing to hold you from having what you deserve and from being what you are......

And dear men, I am not sure if this blog made any sense to you.. I dint intend to make it women centric...just that the day seemed so apt to write about being a woman......but this is how most women feel!...


"Happy Womans Day ! "

THE END( Finally!)